Let’s talk about this for a second.

As lovely as it may seem that we dream and wish, and those wishes come true. It just is not realistic.

We are not Cinderella, and there is no Fairy Godmother.

So now you’re asking how do I make my dreams become a reality.

Well, that is why I am here to help.

I am going to share the two main steps you can take to make all your dreams come true and manifest the life you have always wanted.

This quote sums up the process for me.

"You cannot ask for a big harvest yet plant nothing. Yes, the Universe has the power to manifest what you ask for. Still, you must create the space emotionally, mentally, and spiritually for it to arrive. Decide what you want your life to look like and put effort into welcoming that. Manifestation requires work, not only wishing. Your forest cannot grow and expand if you don't clear the land." Author Unknown

We all have the capacity for greatness, but first, we must believe in ourselves.

We must believe that we are deserving and worthy of the things we are asking.

Why is this important?

This step is essential because if you don't feel like you are deserving and are having doubts, you will not attract the goodness you want.

What do I mean by attracting what you want?

Everything is energy.

If we are having negative thoughts or, in this case, feelings of not being worthy, you will attract things that continue to make you feel unworthy.

When you have positive thoughts and feelings that support your worthiness, you will attract more positivity and the things you want.

I know we all have those moments when we are unable to find the positivity or the beauty in things.

 Guess what it is in those moments that you must pull yourself out of the negativity because you can dwell in it if you are not careful.

Allow yourself to see, feel, and believe what you want fully is already yours.

The second step is to prepare yourself for what you are asking to manifest.

You're probably saying asking is preparing.

There is more to getting prepared than just asking.

• Have you made room in your life?
• Have you changed your mindset to be able to accept what you are asking?
• Are you living as if you already have what you are asking?

Here’s the thing you can’t continue to limit yourself if you are asking for more. The two just do not go together.

I remember hearing Steve Harvey tell the story about how he used to say he was saving up for a car, but his old car was still in the driveway. Yes, He was saving the money, but like his mother told him he was not going to get a car until he made room for it.

You can ask all you want, but if you do not make the room or prepare for what you want, you will never receive it.

Getting prepared looks like this.

You ask for a job/career that will allow you to have a better life than the one you currently have.

There is nothing wrong with asking, except you don't have the skills to provide you with the options for that type of career.

Instead of taking courses to learn the skills, you wallow because you don't have the skills or the money to learn the skills.

You have to prepare yourself for all you want if you are expecting to receive them.

Think of it this way. You have to work to earn money. If you don't work, you don't make money.

There is no way to have one without the other unless you were born into a filthy wealthy family, and most of us were not.

Our mindset plays a huge part in whether we truly receive what we dream.

If you are continually living a lack mindset, you are not preparing for the abundance you are asking.

I’m not saying you have to be flashy and buy expensive things all the time. What I am saying is you have to feel comfortable with what you have.

The lack of mindset doesn't offer the opportunity to get comfortable. You are always worrying about how you are getting the next thing.

We all have to have help when we are looking to Manifest our dreams.

Here is what I have learned from my Coach to manifest my dreams.

I start by clearing my mind through meditation. Meditation is not for everyone, but it works for me.

I sit in front of my altar.

Light my sage or incense and turn on meditation music.

The length of time depends on what is happening with me at the time. Sometimes it is longer than others.

Once my mind is clear, I begin to visualize the thing I want.

How do I visualize?

• For me, it is like playing a movie scene.
• I see the thing I want, the people around me, and the places I want to be.
• No, I do not imagine them. I am actually in the moment.
• Once I can see everything I want. I float outside of my body and see the scene as a spectator.
• It makes it real. I can see it as happening in real-time to me
• Whenever I lose focus, I go back to the scene and rewatch it.
• Manifestation and visualization may not work for everyone, but this is an option for you to try.

Anyone can manifest whatever they want. You just have to believe and put your mind to making it work.

Let me know one thing you are manifesting and how you plan to achieve your dreams.

Happy Manifesting